Welcome to eHarmony, America's #1 Trusted
Relationship Site!

eHarmony is the #1 Trusted Relationship Site
Our patented Compatibility Matching System™ pre-screens your matches and only matches you with highly compatible singles.

Scientifically Proven Compatibility Matching System™
Through exhaustive research with thousands of couples, we have found that there are 29 key Dimensions of Compatibility needed for success in a long-term relationship. We are the onlyrelationship site that matches based on these vital 29 dimensions.

90 eHarmony members get married every single day*
eHarmony is responsible for thousands of marriages and engagements. That's because we are dedicated to delivering you matches that have the foundation of compatibility necessary for a lifetime of happiness!

"No Company Screens Its Members More Rigorously" - Newsweek
Our comprehensive Relationship Questionnaire is just one of the key ways we screen singles for deep compatibility. This detailed screening means more compatible matches for you.

Our Guided Communication Option Breaks the Ice
eHarmony offers a guided process to help you get to know your matches at a deeper level in a safe, fun, and anonymous way. That means you can focus on the enjoyment of getting to know your matches without worrying about the awkwardness of the first few communications.

1. We find out about you. Start by filling out our scientific Relationship Questionnaire.After you complete the Questionnaire, you instantly receive your free, in-depth Personality Profile. That's a $40 value - absolutely free!
2. You learn about yourself. Our Personality Profile offers deep insights into who you are, how others perceive you, and what you need in a partner. After all, you can't truly love and know someone else until you know and love yourself.
3. We find truly compatible matches for you. Once you fill out the profile, you will be matched up through our patented Compatibility Matching System™.
4. You view your matches, risk-free. We'll send you your matches via email where you can review profiles of all your matches for free!
5. Start communicating with your matches. Once you're ready to communicate with your matches, you can select an eHarmony membership plan.At eHarmony, we let you communicate with your matches anonymously, with ease, and at your own pace.
6. You fall in love for all the right reasons. On average, 90 eHarmony members get married every day*. Why? Because our couples fall in love for all the right reasons. Now it's your turn.

Nearly Gave Up

Victoria had signed up for eHarmony during a promotional weekend. Rick was on the brink of canceling his eHarmony membership when he got a last minute match - Victoria. He decided to take a look at this one last match - and it's a good thing he did! Victoria and Rick soon felt like they had known each other forever and are now enjoying married life together.

Singles with Children

Janea had five children and didn't think she would be able to meet anyone willing to take on a family as large as hers. Janea really liked the fact that with eHarmony she would have some help choosing her next partner. She'd been previously married for 20 years and felt completely overwhelmed at the thought of dating. Then she was matched with Mike on eHarmony in 2004. Now the two are happily married.

Long Distance Love

Kristymarie and Sidot met on eHarmony in April of 2007. After communicating through messages and on the phone, they decided to meet. With Sidot in Kentucky and Kristymarie in Iowa, they decided to meet half-way in Illinois. From the minute they saw each other they knew that they would be spending a lot of time together. Despite the distance, they made their relationship work. Now engaged, the happy couple plans to marry in 2008!

50+

Jack and Peggy were widowers looking for love and companionship when they joined eHarmony. Right away, they knew they were a match. Jack even moved to California from Montana so he could get to know Peggy better! Now the two are happily married and looking forward to spending their golden years together. "Every morning we thank eHarmony for bringing us together!"

These couples found their soul mates on eHarmony. Now it's your turn!

Before You Meet

• Always be honest on your profile.
• Take advantage of our Guided Communication feature to communicate with your matches online in a safe, anonymous way.
• When communicating with your matches, ask questions about things that are important to you.
• Ask open-ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer. You'll get a better feel for the person and if you are a good match.
• Take your time getting to know your matches. Love can't be rushed.
• Always listen to your instincts. If something about a match seems too good to be true, then it probably is.

Fun Tips for The Actual Date

• Plan your date around something you both would enjoy and feel comfortable doing.
• Try to think of a few positive topics to talk about before you go on your date.
• Make eye contact when you're talking and listening. It'll keep you both feeling engaged.
• Smile, relax, and be yourself. When you smile and appear relaxed, you'll put your date at ease.
• Steer clear from uncomfortable topics like ex-boyfriends, ex-girlfriends, and insecurities.
• Be confident, but not arrogant.
• Don't give away your deepest, darkest secrets right away. A little mystery can be fun. But never lie.
• Don't order messy food that's hard to eat. Concentrating on your food could distract you from being yourself.
• Keep realistic expectations.
• After the date, if you feel comfortable and enjoyed yourself, set up another date so you can get to know your match better.

Remember, don't worry if you're not feeling any sparks. eHarmony works hard to provide you with many compatible matches so that you can explore your options and find the person that's perfect for you.